When did you...?

I was married, with one son. I met and came out with another married guy when I was 28. The sex was strange, but exciting....sort of came used to it...we were together for 16 years. Both ended up getting divorced, but remained very good fathers to our kids.

I came out when I was 19 and fell in love with someone who had a boyfriend already. He said he liked me and I told him I would wait till he and the other boy broke up (they were on the way out anyways) to go out with anyone. After a year, this person that i was in love with decided they didnt like me anymore so I quickly found a *** buddy and ended my wait. Both of us knew there was no strings attached. I always wanted to wait till I was in love with someone or at least had a boyfriend but my first time was meaningless. Im glad I did it tho, I was 21 at the time and figured I could die tomo and decided what the hell. You only live once. There is nothing wrong with getting your rocks off before you get married, tho it is a matter of choice. I think both people should know they are sexually compatible before they make the commitment of marriage. Everyone has people they click with and though you might love someone, you might not mesh well sexually. Best wishes. B)

I was in France, I was 22. (I'm a late bloomer) Anyway, it was late,and I was on my way to the bus station to go back to my dorm, when I saw this guy staring at me...you know, whith "the look". I sort of stopped, looked back, and turned around, heart pounding, mouth dry. He came up to me and talked to me, then we "went for a walk". We endend up under a pedestrian bridge, where he took off my pants and gave me my first BJ. He was 24, and it was the only time I saw him. I have to admit I ws freaked out. I knew I was "different" since I was 3, and knew I liked guys by the age of 8, but this was my first real first hand (no pun intended) experience. That was 26 years ago, and few people (til now) know about it.

I would of liked to have a better first sexual experience, but considering i was raped, that was out the door! Then i was with 3 other guys, before i became a lesbian!

I'm a bisexual virgin who will be turning 21 in a month. Long ago, I made the promise to myself to save myself until I'm married...silly idea.

I was 14, with a neighbor boy. We kept at it until his family moved, which was difficult for both of us. I had had crushes on boys since kindergarten -- for this to happen was fantastic!

I was 14. He was 16. We did in it in his brother's tree house. It was fun, and we did it all summer!

I was 18 (pretty old by today's standards; I suppose!) Couldn't tell you his name, but GO DIVA!

I was sixteen. I messed around with one of my dad's friends. Shhh.....it's a secret.