16 years ago
The true Christian is not under the law. The law will condemn non believers. If we had to do something for our salvation , then Christ would have gone to the cross in vain. He died for my sins , before , now and later.
But to lust after women in a magazine is not Christ like, that's why it is written, "Better to marry than to burn, for this cause, each man should have his own wife and receive his due benevolence.
Christian marital sex is to bring the couple together spiritually , mentally. physically , emotionally and soulfully.
Young Christian men do seek female friends in all do respect and friendship, with a lot of prayer and talking, when it becomes more , they Marry. Marriage is very serious and not taken lightly.