Can i get some relationship help?

There was one thing that I have always been told..." It's never the same the second time around." And really, it isn't. But that doesn't mean it can't or won't work out. But YOU and HER have to work at it, if you want it to work out. Learn to forgive, and talk about problems. Learn to trust. If you both really still love eachother, it will be worth it. It's not something you want to throw away. Right now, you both need to forgive and forget anything that was in the past. Then you both need to sit down and talk. Do fun things that you BOTH enjoy. Small gestures of love will also be helpful. Show her how much you appreciate her, and she should do the same. I really hope this helps you out.....I'm not sure of your entire situation, otherwise I would offer more....Good Luck!!!!!

go & see a relationships counsellor- preferrably together - but if she is unwilling to go ; then go on your own MOST importantly though keep the communication going between the both of you & REALLY listen to what she is saying to you