Argghh it's so annoying too?

Please don't get so hung up on being a member of the Fashion Police and blame this girl because she most likely does not have the finances to purchase the latest and greatest in fashions. No one chooses to be poor. It is no fun. Then, you come along, and she sees someone she'd like to be like. You should see it as flattery. What if you were in a terrible accident, and you were physically damaged? Would your friends still be your friends? Would they help you get into your wheelchair, push you thru tight doorways, help you in the bathroom when you can't get up on the seat? Life is full of all kinds of people, in all different phases of life. This girl is lonely and is hungry for the attention of friendship. It's highly likely that she has a very unhappy home life. Are you going to blame her for that? What control does she have if life at home is brutal, and the only outlet she has is the attention and smile that you pass her way. Try to have compassion. Life is a long journey, full of all sorts of road hazards. Friends - real friends - are hard to find and harder to keep. This girl may end up being the only one to stand by your side when one of life's hardships makes itself present in your life. Be patient. You may learn from her. You may become a better person because of her.

Well think back and ask yourself if you every gave her the impression that hanging out with you was fine. If you don't remember you ever telling her in any way that it was ok then think of it this way. Try to be a role model for her and kind of change her into a more kooler person and give her fashion advice. But if you ally just don't want her around you need to talk to her in a way that you don't hurt her alot but to get the point across that you don't want her hanging around you. I hope the advice helps.

I'm sorry to say, but the way you said this sounded a little shallow. I'm in junior high and I do know alot of people that can be clingy like this... I know this sounds a little bit wrong but I usually just slowly ignore that person without hurting them- like not acting interested, slowly not taking any of their phone calls. I could never pull of telling someone I just don't want them around anymore and that I don't like them.

quite frankly i think you should be flattered that she likes you so much, but that does get annoying. tell her how you feel shes being a little too clingy and that you need space. but i really think you need to get over the popularity thing. thats just retarded and popular ppl are no different than regular ppl. and as far as fashion goes, it doesnt matter for crap. she has a life and a purpose and you need to respect that and get over yourself, because your looking at everything in the totally wrong way. it seems more like instead of getting help for getting her to leave you alone, you need help withan attitude check.

Sit for a moment and ask yourself, how would you feel if the tables were turned and you were the dumb girl. How would you want to be treated? Everyone has feelings, you know. Life is hard, don't make it harder for others.

You have to be honest. Her feelings are going to be hurt, and she may dislike you, but it's part of growing up. She won't be happy but you might be the first person to give her an idea of what's cool and what isn't. In the end it's better for her. Goodluck heartbreaker. Giro

come on...everyone's the same...even if she doesn't wear teh same clothes as you do, or do the make up, that doesn't mean she is not pretty in the inside. adn someone said it, i agree, how do you say she is dumb when you dont even get to know her. what if she is awsome?

how old are you?? I have an really interesting story...I had this "friend" and none of our group even liked her, we thought she smelled, she was too loud, and chubby, so we were all really mean to her, ya know we were in Jr.high, and she was the girl we picked on in our group...well now we are all college freshman and she's easily the prettiest out of all of us, she's one of my best friends, and I feel terrible about how all of us treated here!! so don't be to hard on this kid :)

you know.. its people like you that makes the "unpopular" kids commit suicide.. grow up.. everyone the same.. she may not wear the same clothes as you, or even talk or have friends like you.. but how do you know what shes like until you know her