14 years ago
Anonymous

boy trouble and a friend!?

My friend and i like the same boy. Only she doesn't know i like him too. The boy asked me out and i didn't tell my friend. I told the boy i would think about it! What should i do. I don't want to loose a friendship or my crush.
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14 years ago
Ciumpirik
Communication is the key here. So talk to your friend. Tell her you like that boy and observe her reaction. If she is indeed a good friend, she will understand and be happy for u. On the other hand, if she shows you real signs of envy, that obviously means that she is not such a good friend as you thought. Anyway, keeping silence is not a solution for this problem. Friendship is quite rare nowadays and therefore one should be careful with her/his choices. These are the exact situations that prove the quality of a friendship. On the other hand, not everything in life is about winning. One should also know how to lose and back up with dignity. Oh, in case u find it too difficult to talk to her and you decide to hide this from her remember this: sooner or later the truth always comes to the surface. And then you might lose both your friend and the boy u like. Good luck! :)
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14 years ago
ItalianBella
Talk to your friend about it. If she really likes him, then maybe it's best you wait a little while before going out with him, but if she's okay with you two then go for it. You have to ask yourself what is more important, a friend, or a boy? If she's really your friend she won't be mad at you, as long as you don't do anything behind her back, or anything that will hurt her. I've been through the same thing. I ended up not going out with the guy because my friend liked him so much, so him and I waited until she was over him. She knew we liked each other and encouraged us to go out, but I wanted to wait, and I'm really glad I did. Make sure you consider the needs of this boy, your friend, but as well as your needs. She might get angry at first because you didn't tell her, but if she truly is your friend she won't hold this against you. And if you're her friend, you will do what's best for her. I hope this helps a bit, and good luck with this situation. It's really tough being caught between two people you care about, I honestly understand. Take some time to think things over, and make sure you do what YOU think is right.
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14 years ago
shygal
Hmmm...that's a hard one. If she's a really good friend of yours then I suggest you move on to someone else...there are many other guys out there. A good friendship is based on trust and loyalty, if she found out you went out with this guy she will not see or understand or even wanna hear why you did it because it will seem unexcusable to her. If I were you I'd tell the guy she likes him and that you're sorry but knowing how your friend feels you don't wanna take a chance....Good luck!
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14 years ago
Anonymous
well ask your friend if hses a good friend shell understand but if she makes you chose just remember that a friendship will probably last longer than a co ed relationship
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4 years ago
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14 years ago
Maximus
tell your friend about it.. and she should understand. you two should definitely work this out :) but tell her.. you can NEVER work it out if you don't talk about it. if you don't .. you may end up losing both. (especially if she finds out from someone else that the boy asked you out).
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14 years ago
Anonymous
tell her you like him akso, see what her reaction is. and either way, someone will get hurt (depending on ur friends reaction), so go with your heart Just remember, boys will come and go, but friends are forever
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14 years ago
Anonymous
You cant have your cake and eat it to. Decide which is more important to you- your friend or a man that is easily replaceable
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14 years ago
davermon
remember this you will have more guys after him hell i have more girlfriends then i do guy friends and you will have the opposite
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