14 years ago
Anonymous

What do you do when your boifreind talks about other girlz...?

My boifreind is alwayz talking about some girl... Today he was syaing that he loved me && if he didnt love me soo much he could && would have cheated on me... He said that some girl that he " used" to lyke b4 we stated going out lykes him && that she started flirting wit him... I just worryz me that he'll do something.. What should I do!?
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14 years ago
kyfixedit
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well test him break up and see if he goes imediately to the other girl then u will know were u stand or tell the girl hes yours hands off
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14 years ago
The Champ
Well first of all you bf is stupid. I would never say that a girl is flirting with me or I like another girl. But I won't keep it as a secret for a long time though. What I think is that he is probably cheating on you. If are telling the truth and he always talks about some girl he should be interested in her. What I will say is that you should take him to the MAURY SHOW and let him take a lie detecter test. This will prove that if he is cheating on you or not. What else i would say is that if you don't want to break up with your bf you should not let him leave the house that much or you should make him be more interested in you than any other girl. You are probably not giving him what he wants. So i would prefer that you should do it with him often and have a family so he won't be able to deny you. and you live happily ever after. These are some of the things what I would prefer you to do.
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14 years ago
Anonymous
Firstoff, have you ever done anything that made him jealous? For example, having a friend you've admitted to liking or just hanging around guys. That could be the reason. It's human nature to not subside to being vulnerable. He wants you to feel the sting that he did, if in fact you ever did anything emotionally distressing. You aren't a bad person.. jealousy is natural.. unless you're the Dahli Lama. :) He probably will not do anything if in truth he does love you. Most guys have an understanding that if they cheat, they will lose you. Nobody wants a lost love. Just tell him how you feel about the situation, and how it hurt you. Ask him if he's ever felt the same, and appologize. Tell him you trust him. If he cheats though, even after this, it wasn't anything you did and you deserve better!
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14 years ago
Sean J
I'd worry more that he was going to do something if he wasn't talking or if he stopped talking. As long as he's talking like this, he's being honest, and then you know he's not cheating on you. What does it say when he stops saying, "I could cheat on you if wanted"? It means he has something to hide on the subject. Any time a girl shows even the slightest interest in me, I tell my wife right away so she doesn't find out any other way. It also means that I can't run arround on her, because she knows all the girls that I could do that with and if she suspected anything she could just call them one by one.
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14 years ago
Anonymous
Something is wrong with him. usually guys dont do that. But my bf is alike.. Everytime i am with him, he sais: look at this girl.. she is hot. Or we ride the car and he looks back at girls he passed on the street. Guess what i did. i played the same game. Used to show him, that some guy looks better than him or smthg..and so on. . Nothing went right. cause i realised that was stupid to do that.. I dont now what he was thinking by doing this, but that was a start of our breaking up. I start not to trust him, cause if he acts like this in front of me, who knows what he does when im not around. Tell ur boyfriend to decide what he wants and needs, and that u r not who tollerates such behaviour. Thats disrespectuful.. So stay strong and dont let him treat u like this!!! Take care :) Inga
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14 years ago
Heart of Gold
Tell him it makes u feel insecure that hes always talking about her. If he IS ALWAYS talking about her, Id be careful cuz hes probably giving u the hint that hes a) about to cheat or b) about to dump u for her. The other option is hes playing mind games with u and he wants to make u jealous. Some guys get off on knowing that their gf would be super jealous, it is an ego boost for them.
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14 years ago
ken401lam
slap him in the face. The way he is talking is scarying you, in a guy mind, he is trying to get you to become jealous and would do anything to keep him from going out. As this guilty build, he will get you bed very fast and then he will move on. So slap him and tell him to show more respect.
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14 years ago
Jazz21
All you can do is trust. When you start accusing they might actually do it. But there is nothing wrong with him saying whta he said to you. All he said was a girl he use to like tried to flirt with him. At least he is telling you. Meaning he likes to communicate with you so don't mess that up. He hasn't done anything so don't stress it.
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14 years ago
Anonymous
You must be young...lots of misspellings and it didn't make alot fo sense, but, talking about other girls is not strange. He should keep it to himself, but us guys always think about other girls/women. Its just how guys are, even if he cares about you, he is thinking of other girls. And if he gets a chance with someone else , he may cheat. That is why teenager are way to young to have serious relationships....the impulse control is not there.
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14 years ago
travel4christ1
I was told to not talk about my ex-boyfriend at the beginning of a dating relationship. If he tells you and shows you that he loves you then he really does. If you have been with this guy for some time now..it's ok to talk about your past relationships. Maybe tell him not to talk about the other girls if if bothers you.
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14 years ago
newyorktilson
He is really insecure about your relationship that is why he wants to make sure that you know he could have other women. Tell him that you don't really want to hear about your potential sex partners. Then make sure that you let him know that you could have other men if you wanted by flirting a little bit when you go out.
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