14 years ago
ann m

my boyfriend hates me so much should i forgive and forget him?

I had sex with my lover when i was 19 and 20 yrs, now i am 22. now we feel it was a mistake.. it happened that time and my boy friend now says he hate to remember that time... it happened because of my mistake... no i know i wasnt wrong i gave up myself because i trusted and loved him blindly. now he asked me he is coming next month from usa.. we shall meet..are u interested? i was just thinking whats the point of having sex with a person who never wants to be his wife...am i a **** for a boy to share me.... i am from india.. we are very religious too...our tradition and culture is different.. i strongly for a person who can share everything with me including his heartforever..i never loved a man for sex not going to love a man for sex..there wasnt any mistake from my side.. this guy is my first love now he is asking what do i do if he get marry to another girl.. i am not shortempered like him but still i cant think a girl to share him..but i know he will never be mine unles he wish
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14 years ago
shortyfive0
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My opinion is that that you just drop him. You will have so many more than just one love. It doesn't sound like this guy is really the "one" for you and it does't sound like he treats you the way that you deserve to be treated. I say just drop him and find someone else that you really care about and that really cares about you. Good Luck, this is one of lifes more complicated questions that is very hard to answer. Only your "one" can answer it for you.
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14 years ago
sunshine090892
Well! I have been married 2 yr and my husband surely hates me. He hates me so much that he cant bere to look at me. It hurts so much that I want to die. When I want to make love or talk to him or anything he gets upset. 1 yr he has not made love to me it hurts so much. Ignoring a woman hurts more then beating her! I really dont know what to do! I cant leave him because I love him more then his hate for me. Love him more then myself! He is better then me. Too good for me my family said.
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14 years ago
syra_furena
No don't forgive him just forget him he is not worth your time or effort Hun if he wants to marry someone else let him it might be the worst mistake he ever makes.
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14 years ago
Rachel R
He has no right to use you. Accept nothing less than a sincere, grieving apology for his words and actions, and a marriage proposal. Otherwise, what does he want you for? People who use others never love them.
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4 years ago
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If I have been you, i could scale decrease back them the two loose. She feels like a awful chum who's attempting to make you experience like crap, and he for sure would not care the two. you would be greater beneficial off without them.
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14 years ago
Russly F
you should try dating other people first, to get the general idea of love. somtimes things just don't work out.
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14 years ago
Anonymous
I think you should just forget him your just a booty call for him. if he want to be with sum one else then hes not worth it. you deserve sum one better.
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14 years ago
Denise D
You should just forget him. Go on, and find someone else.
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