15 years ago
david w

Why does my ex say she Loves me but she wants to break up and live it up? Help!!!?

I have been with her for 3 years things have been too great until about 4 months ago she met this guy at school and ever since she has been acting very distant to the point where she broke it off with me. So I stopped calling and about a week later she called saying she loves me and she can't see her life with anybody else. After trying to deal with it and find pece in my heart she comes around and tells me these things, why? I asked her not to call unless she wanted to fix our relationship. She is 21 I am 26 and I love her to death and even thou I know she is seeing that other guy I am not mad at her. I mean she never cheated on me. I too got with another girl when we first broke up but it was until after so even thou we have been with other people we always break up first but later we can't live without each other. Why if we love each other so much can't we be in the same state of mind and place in our hearts. She said I want to marry a guy like you someday but not now but I Love U.
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15 years ago
vamp_19772001
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being the fact thas she is that young she hasnt had time to have her freedom give it time if its meant to be its meant to be in the man time do the same thing go out party have fun but let her know your doing the same that way there is no guilt on eather and you both have fun
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15 years ago
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Just remember what your momma used to tell you if it comes back around it's meant to be!!! right!! please do your self a favor and let her go for now move on explore i know that it's hard but you will be better of! If you were really in love with one another neither of you would have slept with anyone else!!! just remember that.... you were only broke up for 4 months that wasn't long enought to go jump in the sack with someone else after being with her for 3 years something is wrong there and you need to look at that!!! Good Luck in life she is young and you need to move on she wants her wings to drink and party!!! go find a home maker!!!
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15 years ago
silly5445
I went throe about the same thing you are going throe i think you should let her go and live alittle i know its hard to do but if it was meat to be it will be it just mint not be time yet i let mine go and about 3 years latter out of the blue we Rena in to each other we are now getting marry ed it will happen for you like i said if its meat to be it will happen good luck to you hope it all works out
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15 years ago
srthompson01
She has found another man and wants to let you down gently. She was probably cheating and wants a guilt free resolution.
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15 years ago
Anonymous
dude move on !!! you will get over it. so enjoy the freedom and explore the offerings to be had out there. and trust me your heart will let you know when you find the right one.
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15 years ago
Anonymous
he like what u r giving him
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