14 years ago
Anonymous

Is hating the father of your unborn baby reason enough to have an abortion?

I don't want to have my child suffer with the horrible possibilities that father may do.
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14 years ago
save_me_wonderful_god
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Leave him and teach him a lesson. The baby didn't anything wrong. It doesn't need a lesson.
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14 years ago
Sondra
If you walked along the sidewalk and saw a baby sitting in a basket, would you kill it? Would you murder any human being at all for any reason? What reason is a good reason for murder? You need to rise above all of that. If you don't want your child to suffer, then do the right thing and give that child up for adoption. There are so many couples out there who would give their right arm just to have a little baby. And, right now, you have the power to bring joy to other people's lives. Which would you rather do, bring joy and do the right thing, or bring death.
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14 years ago
ppr
You have been given a beautiful gift. Please try to do all you can to have your baby. When you child comes into this world, your unconditional love will surpass any feeling you have for the father of your child You will be responsible for teaching your child everything you want her to know, so there's little chance of her suffering the sins of the father. Concentrate on having a great pregnancy, and pray for strength . Good Luck
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14 years ago
drjen
this is a serious question if he is abusive, etc you need to get away from him whether you keep the baby or not if he is abusive you do not need to give up the baby becaue of it cause there is nothing that forces a man to be in the life of a child, just dont let him be if you are not ready willing or able to have the child that is the reason to abort or adopt
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14 years ago
motherofthree
No. I have a child that I love very much and I hate his father. My son has never met his father and never will unless he wants to. My husband has raised him as his own since he was two and he is now eleven and we have two younger children. If you don't want to raise this child, there are thousands of families that aren't able to have their own children that would be delighted to adopt them. This would also eliminate the fathers contact with the child because it sounds as if you may fear that the father will hurt your child. FYI- a fetus has a heartbeat 25 days after conception. If it has a heartbeat, it is alive.
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14 years ago
Anonymous
no, that is a selfish reason to have an abortion. there are numerous other ways to deal with your problem: adoption, get a restraining order against the father, there's even this thikng where you can drop the baby off at any emergency room and they will care for it ( if you decide to have the baby and can't handle it or whatever)
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14 years ago
gray'sfan
Well, you didn't mention how you feel? are you emotionally ready for a child? Are you financially able to support it? Hey, i think it's cruel to bring a child into the world where it's unwannted and cannot be supported...if you aren't ready to be a parent than don't be one.
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14 years ago
Joe P
An abortion is the woman's decision regardless of reason. It's her body and no one has the right to tell her what she can and can't do.
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14 years ago
Anonymous
no thats wrong and stupid and selfish and omg dont do that just becasue u hate the dad dont kill ur baby it's a part of u ur family no it is not a good "reason" to kill ur baby so many people want kids and cant have one
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14 years ago
la buena bruja
This question sounds like there's a lot of facts that are left out. This is probably part of a very complicated situation. Seek professional counseling.
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