14 years ago
riya_damedemo

my life sux!!!?

ok u might think i'm ur average emo but really i'm not. i have so many probs rite now that i want to die. my friends aren't my friends anymore!! I have absolutely no confidence in myself and its ruinin my life. My family don't care about me because i'm da "girl" and I can't do as much things as boys can in my family!!!! school is going no where every1 hates me because i'm the "quite emo girl" and i hate being quite!!! no1 understands the real me who just wants to have real friends for once!! even i hate me for being such a coward in my life and letting others trample me, but i cant do anything, even though i've tried!! please help!!! i want a decent life too, i feel sad 24/7 and have lost the purpose of living
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14 years ago
Anonymous
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I right there with you girl, but I am older and don't go to school. Actually I've felt the same way from way back and I still don't know what to do? Maybe you are not of this world like me? a lot of people are going to hell and maybe this is not you? I don't follow a religion but that's all I can think of is the reason But you don't want to think crap like that. My best advice is to focus on something (maybe even learn how to focus) like for me for example, I am trying to focus on making a lot of money without hurting anyone. I actually loath the monetary system but after so many years I have found money is the only way out of poverty and slavery. I figure even if I'm sad, as long as I got some money to say *** tha world I don't have to feel like I'm about to go insane from all the cold lies and ignorance around me. That's just how the western world works. I'm not saying money is the way out. I'm saying focus on something. But check this out; Life is like a sh!t sandwich........ The more bread you got, the less sh!t you eat. - Dave from Angeles Anyway, gravity is a myth... Life sucks.
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14 years ago
Anonymous
What do you think would make you feel better? If you cannot change your family (and you can't) then try to change your reation to them. What answer did you get to the first question? If it's that you'd feel better if you had a better support system, then try to find one. Consult a doctor at your local clinic, explain some of the pressures you are under and ask for a referral for someone to talk to. These things, these reactions from others that make you feel that you are not accepted may be a reflection of how you feel about yourself. It may look/seem as though you would feel better about yourself if people only treated you better, but it's the other way around. There is so much help out there. Do you have a youth hotline in your area? Kids help phone line or something like that? This part of your life is difficult as you are trying to find out who you are (continues throughout your life), and in adolescence you face additional challenges. Try to be good to yourself. Every try saying to yourself, "God, these people are all crazy, I'm a great person because..." and then make a list. Examine all the things that you've accomplished, starting with the fact that you're still alive despite your situation. Acknowledge yourself in ways that your own family cannot right now. Seek help. You have a great life ahead of you even if it does not seem that way right now. The key is in loving yourself, something that is very very difficult to do when it appears that everyone around you is against you. Do not start to turn against yourself. It will still be up to you to start the healing process that will lead to self-love. You can only begin this while you are still on your own side, so don't hate yourself for being young and misunderstood. You deserve the decent life you crave. I hope you realize that the anonymous people on this site will still be thinking about you and rooting for you long after we move on to the next question. Please be well, and seek some help. Good luck and look forward to a great life. It can start today with a little love and care from your own self.
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14 years ago
Anonymous
I don't know how old you are, and anything about your history, so I'm not very qualified to give you advice. But I do know this. There are people out there who can help you. You might benefit from antidepressants right now, even if it was just for short term use, to get through this hard time in your life. Many people are against antidepressants, but if you had diabetes surely you wouldn't resist taking insulin? So what would be wrong with taking something for depression if you have something wrong in your emotional life? Also, is there a chance you could find a good councelor and see them on a weekly basis for a while? If you don't like or connect with the first councelor you meet, then go to another one. Try to find one with a good recommendations, who is ethical, honest and ready to look at the big picture in your life, not just see you as a mixed up emo teenage girl. Lastly, you are right in one thing. If you are going to base your life in people, then you are going to be hurt. Your parents probably have their own struggles, issues and problems and while they most likely are not purposely trying to hurt you, they obviously aren't in a position to help alot. And friends. Friends can be great but they too are teenagers and going through stuggles of their own. It's pretty hard to rescue someone when you're drowning yourself. I would really recommend reading some good books on Christianity. Maybe you think this is a corny suggestion, and I'm guessing that religion isn't something that turns you on right now. But it has been a huge help for me when things really suck to know that there is a higher power out there who made me on purpose, for a reason. That I matter. That I'm important. It helps me to know that there is Someone who doesn't have all the issues and problems that parents, friends and even councelors can have, and that Someone is God. It has been a huge help for me to know that there is more to life than just rushing around, trying to fit in and make a living and keep alive. I would recommend the book "The Purpose Driven Life" by Rick Warren. He really talks about finding out why you exist, what talents and strengths you have, and how to find a real meaning for this lousy life that we all struggle with. Good luck.
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14 years ago
Anonymous
Forget the other people, find friends that don`t care who you are. There is always somebody that will be your friend. Get good grades in school for yourself & your education, not because your parents are freaking out about it. It will all pay off if you do it for youself to make your life better NOT anybody else. Do things you wanna do, & forget what other people say about it. Live your life *
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14 years ago
Anonymous
yea my life pretty much sux too.Just think someware out there some one is in worse shape than you.Like me for an example I used to be addicted to Heroin,cocaine,alcohol and anything else I could get.Ive been clean now for two years and my life got a litte bit better but it still sux sometimes I think about useing again to just give me somthing to do,or just to be around my old friends but I dont I just allways think that things could be worse,And they will get better.Sometimes we just have to take what god gives us.I just hope you work out all of your problems and dont do anything stupid.
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14 years ago
Patty M
Shake your life up a bit. Be spontaneous and put that spark in your life. Find new friends, Hang out in new places. You are stuck and need to find out who you really are.
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5 years ago
sanjay
i think of you're slightly unfavourable. existence is a mind-blowing blessing that each and each physique human beings would desire to relish. particular...we've our united statesand downs, yet we conquer our obstacles and boost as human beings. existence is a adventure...relax, relax, and revel in the experience.
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14 years ago
poprocksncoke030
emo isn't a type of person. it's a shorted term for a genre of music. emo is just emotional shortened. everyone is "emo" because everyone has emotions. you sound like a pathetic thirteen year old girl. get over yourself. and it's "quiet" not "quite."
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14 years ago
cat_heros@sbcglobal.net
Study harder and keep trying until you reached your goal. Pray to God and God will help you. Try and be perfect so that your family will respect you. Good luck.
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14 years ago
‡ Edgar ‡
lol ur way emo go run, it'll raise the seratonin levels in your brian which will make you more happy :) or less depressed
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