14 years ago
Heidi F

Not able to have an orgasm during pregnancy?

This is my 4th pregnancy and I've NEVER had this problem with the first 3...actually it's usually the opposite. Has anyone ever had this happen? My husband and I have tried EVERYTHING and it's very frustrating for me since I usually have 2 or more each time.
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14 years ago
CiCi Elder
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Relax. Concentrate on just enjoying the act, rather than thinking of orgasm as a goal. Very likely it didn't happen one time, which got you both too focused on the end rather than just enjoying the sex. If you stop thinking about it, it's MUCH more likely to happen.
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4 years ago
Anonymous
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14 years ago
LE!SA
Pregnancy can definitely have your hormones all over the place, as well as your head. It can also have odd effects on your body- some women say that reaching orgasm becomes effortless and easier, while others have to work harder than before to achieve it, and others, can't achieve one at all. All are normal during pregnancy. Like the other poster, I would also suggest just trying to relax more and concentrate less on the final goal (reaching the big O) Try and keep your mind on what's actually happening rather than what you're trying for. You also mention that you've tried everything. Does that mean you've tried everything you've always tried that worked before, or does that include things that you haven't done before too. You may want to do an online search to look for more ideas. You'd be surprised at the things out there that you may have not thought of or tried. No one out there has tried EVERYTHING. =) If all else fails, the only thing I can think of to suggest to you would be a Hitachi Magic Wand if you're not against bringing adult toys into the picture. =)
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14 years ago
bernie2u4
I was just thinking about this the other day. I haven't been able to have a orgasm the whole time. There are very few positions that do it for me. And since I get so winded and lose focus, I can't achieve one. It's really getting difficult for me to have ANY comfortable positions, so pretty much the entire time, I'm ready for it to be over.
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4 years ago
Penny
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5 years ago
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