15 years ago
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Is it cheating if you have a FWB & you slept with someone else?
There is a guy that I give my heart to every time I see him, everytime we touch & kiss or merely talk to ... only thing is that he doesn't want a relationship. I dont think I want to have a relationship either (or at least I think I don't).
what happened was I slept with a guy to see if it would help me to get over my Jonathan (<3). Only thing is, now I feel horrible for doing it now. :(
I feel as if I have let him down, let myself down, & lowered my standards by doing this. Im just confused as to whether or not I should feel like this. I mean, Were not dating.
Should I feel this way?
& for the record, it was totally NOT worth it.
I wish I could go back & do everything VERY dfferently.
Why do I feel like this even though were not officially dating?
15 years ago
charlieshepp
Favorite Answer
It is not cheating. You just got attached.
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15 years ago
Dan Bueno
It seems like you slept with guy #2 because guy #1 wouldn't sleep with you and that is what you wanted or needed. It's not cheating in the classic sense but since you feel you should've saved yourself for Guy #1, you feel like it was cheating.
I would say to you that if Guy #1 doesn't want what you want, why do you want HIM? Because he is unattainable? It also doesn't sound like guy #2 was the one either since "It was totally not worth it." Did Guy #1 know about Guy #2? Did you want him to feel jealous? Then again, if you do get to sleep with guy #1, you may find the same thing with him.
Find Guy #3 !! He's the guy that you want and that wants you. If it's not mutual, it's not going to be good.
GOOD luck. and happy hunting.
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15 years ago
Perdendosi
Because YOU have feelings for this guy, even though he may not have (romantic) feelings for you.
That's the problem with FWB... but YOU entered into a physical, FWB relationship KNOWING that you wanted more and KNOWING that Jonathan didn't.
You don't know how many girls he's been with during your FWB, do you? That's beceause it's FWB... neither of you are committed (even though you already were emotionally).
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15 years ago
Anonymous
Simply, LOVE and spelled backwards its EVOL so u feel horrible.
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15 years ago
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does it matter? you are acting like a ho. you have no respect for what relationships are all about and are just letting the sex waste your life away. until you find out what really matters in life then it doesnt matter what the answer is to this is.
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