13 years ago
Malina

How would you handle this?

I've had some of the worst luck this year. The worst thing that happened was 2 days ago. I had a miscarriage in April, so i never bothered to check when my due date would have been. Out of curiosity, I used the "wheel of due dates" to figure out when it would have been. The date was 12/20, my dad's birthday. My dad passed away this year on 9/28. My ex (the father of my miscarried baby) wanted to celebrate the due date, and keeps calling me. I told him to stop calling or i'll change my number, because I can't deal with it all. I stopped talking to him, but we have mutual friends. I got back together with my current bf, who i was with for over 2 years before we broke up. My current bf is my best friend and my ex is annoying. I try to talk to friends about this, but no one can relate. No one i know has miscarried or lost their father. My dad was the person i would turn to when things got all mixed up. Knowing that my baby would have been born on his birthday is tearing me up.
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13 years ago
axidnqc
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OMG! I am so sorry for your lose. You have every right to feel the way that you feel. I haven't lost a baby or my father, but I have lost two brothers in the past 4 years. You are lucky to have a bf that is there for you. You need to try to talk to your ex; try to get him to understand that his request is seriously unwanted. If this doesn't work then block his number! He is your ex and he needs to be put in his place. Your friends won't understand. Don't expect them to, but also know that if they could comprehend what you are going through, then they would. Your father might not be here in person, but trust me. He is your guardian angel and he is there whenever you need him.
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13 years ago
mom23boys
First, I'm so sorry to hear of your losses. I know how hard it is to lose a father... my dad committed suicide 5 days after I got married and three months later I found out I was pregnant and due exactly a week before he died. If your ex keeps bothering you, maybe you could call the phone company and see if there is a way to put a block on his number. I hope everything starts to get a bit better for you. Hang in there.
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