15 years ago
me_moi
Is it okay to fight for it?
Is it okay to fight for someone who hurt you a couple of times already? There's this guy whom i love for so long and every time we got together there's a lot of people telling these things that they are also in a relationship with the guy i have.Honestly i'm not a strong woman. I cry easily and believe easily in every stroies others tell me. The reason why we got back is that i want to try if this relationship would work if we are together in same place.We've been apart for 3 years and i thinking if being apart would be the coz of bad relationdhip.He always tells me that he loves me. Although i have doubts but still i believed him. I was just thinking if i've made a bad decision in bringing myself back in his arms again.
15 years ago
Anonymous
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Love hurts sometimes.. and isn't always deserving... It's only been 3 years, I doubt he has changed that much in that short of a time.. I would spare your heart the pain and not get back together with him.. there are many other guys much more deserving of a love like yours..
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15 years ago
rashida_16
I say grow some thick skin and move on. Why let a man use and mistreat you? Don't you know there are some really good men out there that will love you for the woman that you are and not take advantage of your emotions? I am like that too but I had to get strong because people will walk all over you. Don't give him the chance to hurt you ever again!
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15 years ago
wildflower
You say he's hurt you a couple times before. Why would you go back to him if he hasn't changed? He'll continue to hurt you, won't he? I assumed that you had forgiven him for the hurt he caused you before. But it's really gonna be difficult if you keep running into his former girl friends, who claim he has hurt them too. Maybe you and he should avoid ppl from the past and not go to those old hangouts. Make a fresh new start. New ppl, new friends, new future.
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15 years ago
sunoverla
Start out from the beginning and don't have sex...really.
If your friendship isn't broken then maybe he can earn back your trust. Then take it from there. Don't trust everything he says because it may be sugarcoated. Be cautious and don't be too crazy for him because you deserve to be treated with respect first before you give him another chance.
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15 years ago
Oceanside
You should trust your gut gurl. MAny men only want to use u so u got to keep those eyes open. Noone can tell u what to do u must do what u think is right and live with it.
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