13 years ago
Anonymous

oral sex: I find it to be so embarassing to have to ask my boyfriend?

to wash himself before we have it. Please, how to handle this situation? Please, be serious, I feel bad every time it happens. He should go and wash himself, but he does not do and still want me to do it.
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13 years ago
M.D.Ramz
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Calmly tell him that you do not apreciate it when he doesn't shower. If he washes and you aprove give him a good time. if not then tell him you will leave if he doesn't. Oh and if you want to stay with him just threaten him that you will cut it off instead of sucking it next time.
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5 years ago
amada
Well if he is selfish in bed, stop sleeping with him until he can learn to satisfy you. And don't be a slouch, teach him what makes you feel good. How do you know he is not embarrassed? Hell I am at the very least, insecure when I buy condoms, and I'm 23 and live on my own, and have fairly liberal views on human sexuality. I just think these things are generally awkward, and he perhaps doesn't want to have someone judge him if he goes out to purchase it.
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13 years ago
nuyoricancop
you should not be embarassed by asking him to wash himself. If he is not embarassed to ask you to pleasure him. If he expects you to pleasure him then he should be willing to help make it enjoyable for you as well...it should be give and take...make a joke out of it....or offer to wash him....wait for a moment when you are having a nice talk and tell him I need you to do something for me...if its presented in a non judgemental manner then he shouldn't feel like u r persecuting him...
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13 years ago
Lost & Wandering
If you've been through this with him before and he continually doesn't do it, then be point blank honest with him: you wash, no head. Not as simple as it sounds, but it's not fair to you to have to engage in those types of favors for him, if he can't think of your health and wellbeing.
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13 years ago
Anonymous
Try this: Tell him if he doesn't wash, you're gonna make sure you don't wash for a week before sex, and you're gonna smell like hell, and maybe he can go down too.
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13 years ago
drd
Be insistent. Hygiene is so important! Do not let him push you into doing anything you don't want to do. If he insists and keeps pushing you, your boyfriend is taking you for granted and has no care for your wellbeing. Dump him if he continues to treat you with disrespect.
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13 years ago
Kevin
oh. so you mean he wants you to give him a blow**job even though hes kinda smelly?? alright what you can do is when he is in the mood of doing it, offer him to take a shower "together" its a really sexy/kinky idea and its an indirect way to get him to shower. or what you can do is just be honest with him and tell him you cannot be sexual with him unless "both" of you have taken a shower. but the best indirect way is to get him to shower with you.
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13 years ago
Anonymous
Hey now....I do not partake in those activities or atleast not admit to it publicly. Not that I think theres anything wrong with a bit of carpet munching
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13 years ago
tony key / tony romero
He wants head - and will not wash his penis at your request? Find new boyfriend, brainless...
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13 years ago
angeleyes3535
talk to him about it. he should respect your wishes on this. or you could give him a "sponge bath" yourself and you know that he is clean
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