14 years ago
Anonymous

I'm Afraid To Have Sex :(?

I'm Afraid To Get in a relationship with a girl because it might lead to becoming intimate, and I'm afraid that I won't be able to please her, I get embarrased when girls ask me how big I am, and I don't like to lie about my size, and they get excited when I Lie and say that I'm 9 inches. So I've sorta been bent on not having sex until I grow more, and that's why whenever I get close to a girl I only want to use my mouth or fingers and massage and stuff like that, the only thing that I am ever worried about is not being able to please a girl. I Would rather try to please a girl then have her trying to please me. and all my mates laughed at me when I said I don't like getting head.. is something wrong with me??
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14 years ago
highlanders30
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There's nothing to worry about. Sexual satisfaction and the ability to please a partner improves with age if you watch how a lady reacts each time you do something. At 16, you have very very limited experience and would not be able to please a lady the same way a 40 year old would. This might make you feel worse than you already are but remember, the lady that you give pleasure to is just as naive about sex as you are! First thing though is to stop lying! If someone asks you your size, don't tell them, just smile and say perhaps sometime you'll find out. If you do get close enough to get into an intimate act, just enjoy the whole sensation and stop worrying about it. it'll only lead to sexual problems which you don't need anything else to worry about. When the time comes, you'll know it and will enjoy it immensly but just take it slow and enjoy every delicious moment leading up to this and remember, the older you get and the more attention you pay to how a lady is pleasured, the better lover you will be with time!
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14 years ago
Ali B!
no, there's nothing wrong with you. look girls care but we don't care that much, its not like we're giving you head and trying to measure out how big your are by how deep we can go or anything like that. the average size of a guy is 5 inches despite what anyone says thats the truth. it's more about how you use it and not how big it is. if you're young you probably will grow more, but the key to pleasing a girl is confidence. tell yourself and her that you can please her and you will find the inner sex-machine man in there. Besides, if a girl really cares and likes you, she really won't care about you're size. trust me on that. Loose the fear, grow some balls, get confident and get on it.
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5 years ago
Anonymous
properly no longer all Christians are petrified of intercourse in any different case we christians does no longer be born. i think its a woman's duty to maintain herself between sexual circumstances. it particularly is a robust lady that bears the right properly human. ok specific the bare physique is organic, yet that line is in simple terms an excuse for adult males to ok a woman's insecurities.. guy awaken its all approximately capability, money and administration. lady and adult males at present are equivalent whilst it is composed of the spreading of corruption. you ought to draw some type of line whilst it is composed of intercourse or we would be humping our very own family members guy. properly if its a greta get away from lifes misiers we ought to asked ourselves why we've such miseries interior the 1st place, see all miseries are brought about upon guy's very own incorrect doing and if we don't exchange that immediately we can be residing interior the the following day and intercourse is an excuse to alleviate those miseries because of the fact those miseries wouldn't have even been planted there interior the 1st place.. get it!
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14 years ago
Anonymous
Have some confidence,take a girl out and get to know her on more of a personal level, get to know her well and build a relationship with her then when you feel ready go for it if a girl like you for you then you shouldnt worry and things will just come naturally
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14 years ago
Jill88
Maybe you're just not mentally ready for sex-or you're with the wrong girls. Lying to a girl isn't going to help you in the long run. If a girl really loves you, she's going to love ALL of you-catch my drift? Just relax, have fun, and be safe!
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14 years ago
Liv
there is nothing wrong with you. sex is for marriage. and i understand your feelings. 1. you could get in trouble for getting a girl pregnat 2. ruin your relationship with the girl 3. ruin your reputation and attract trashy hoe girls 4. get an std, and never be able to have sex or kids you're a good guy. and youll get awesome girls. i admire you!
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14 years ago
Anonymous
I think you are just incsure about your body.I used to be like that but i realized that there is nothing to worry about.
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14 years ago
just me :)
no nothings wrong with you, you dont have to do anything ur not comfy with
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14 years ago
Anonymous
yeah. You just go take some enzyte or something
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