Wat should i do.. I cant overcome it.. Help me pls.. Guys/gurls??

Sorry to tell you this, but I think when she said she wanted to just concentrate on her studies, that she was just trying to politely tell you she's not interested in you as a boyfriend. For the past 2 years you have just been hanging out doing what friends do. Best advice I can give you is to move on and get another girl. In fact this might make her jealous and realize that she does like you. A lot of the time, the girl won't realize this until she sees him w/ another girl. Good Luck!

You seem like a really Nice guy, and unfortunately the rumor is nice guys finish last, but I think the biggest mistake you did was wait on her. Whenever your to accessible to a person they get to comfortable.She is probably thinking that you will still be there while she explores other options, because you waited for her so long she knows the love is there. I say prove her wrong and just count it as a loss its easier said than done. I don't know if you have ever heard of the 80 20 rule, but it goes like this in a relationship most people only get eighty percent of what they want and when you have only eighty percent that other twenty percent looks really good.You are the eighty and the other guy is the twenty, soon she will realize the grass is greener on the other side.

I cant imagine how difficult it is for you because I just did this to my ex. We dated for 3 years and were eachothers bestfriend. We broke up, but still hungout and enjoyed eachothers company. However, over that time i grew out of him. I needed time for me and to see what else was out there and he couldnt let go. People change and I know it hurts but you need to let her do her thing and you do your own thing. Give her the space you need and if you two are meant to be in the future it will work out. We never forget our first loves, but we have to grow up and sometimes it just doesnt coincide with the other person. It hurts and there wont be a day she doesnt run through your mind, but unfortunately things change... enjoy your freedom and stop waiting...she would want that for you...best of luck

Awww you did NOTHING wrong. Look at this word, please: NOTHING. She obviously wanted to move on, and didn't care about how you felt. If you would like, you could tell her how you felt about that. And if she's going to be jerk about it, she's not worth it and she's most def not your woman. And don't worry, what comes around, goes around...you'll find a cuter girl someday, and she won't leave you no matter what happens. But it takes time. But don't always remember the positive parts of your relationship. Remember the negitive points, also. And realize what could've been worse.

I got the same experience before. I guess some girls ( like me ) can't actually wait for a guy to propose to her. If I met a better guy along the way and I'll go for it. That's the problem. A lot of guys tend to wait to propose their feelings out for the girl he loves. But if a guy doesn't say, she'll feel that the guy has already move on without her.

Coming from a girl's point of view I have to say that maybe she food someone who she really liked and someone who treated her like she really wanted to be treated. I am not sure what you did or how you treated her. But sometimes we as girls want to be soon a little more love and attention at times. And sometime our present man is not showing us love we will move. My advise to you is to move on. This was a learning experience for you. Move On!

I am trying to be as nice as possible, but you should most definately move on. Girls like to play that game, but in the end they WILL go with you if they WANT to. If she really wanted to be with you she wouldnt have broke up with you for her "studies", and if she did do it for her studies, she would have made sure that you were the first one to know. Instead she got a guy........ EDIT: Listen to EVERYTHING "Randy S" says...he is telling the truth. He honestly has the best answer to your question.....

You love her? Give me a break. You love her body and want to have sex with her is all you love. Stop whining like this. You need to be a man. Needless to say, she doesn't want to anything to do with you if you are wilting and telling her all kinds of corny things like you miss her. Girls only like guys that treat them badly. Until you learn how to treat women badly (not to the point of physically abusing them, of course), you will be a lonely guy. Look around, and you will see women are all with guys who treat them bad. They dump 'nice' guys - always have and always will. Nice guys don't just finish last, they are lucky to even get to the finish line. Now, listen up. Change your ways to become a worse person. It may sound counterintuitive, but it's the way women secretly like it. (Maybe because that way, they think they can 'fix' the guy. Same thing goes for why women hang with gay dudes. They think they can 'change' them). You will need to start to: a) routinely lie to them, b) cheat on them (so that they will find out you're cheating), c) constantly be tooling them and playing headgames with them, d) never EVER tell them the truth about anything, e) give them virtually no respect except for 5 minutes before sex (that turns them on) , and you'll eventually be fine. In fact, you'll be more than fine - girls will fight amongst themselves for you. They love that kind of treatment. It's hard-wired behaviour from the caveman days, I think.

Listen to some Depeche Mode.

well did u tell her wat she did to u and how "unfair" it is look if she doesn't want a guy that has waited 2 years for her then move on get a more appreciative girl