13 years ago
Anonymous

cant live without him but cant live with him?

he is such a clean freak and i like to come in and drop my clothes wherever they land after a hard day at the office. i do put them away later but at first i just want to relax and strip down. when he comes over to my place he loves being with me but my little mess has him cleaning up before we can play. what do u suggest?
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13 years ago
YELLOW PINKY =)
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we can swap im a clean freak and my BF is like you ...my bf is swedish been in england for 12 years i will send him wrapped for free !!
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13 years ago
Craig c
Not to sure about the Avatar photo, you look like you don't wear much clothes anyway. I don't think someone is a "clean freak" just because they don't like a dirty house. If that is the only problem you have with your mate, you should be glad. There is nothing wrong with relaxing, but come on how hard is it to put you clothes away. If they are dirty just get you a wash basket and put it in your bed room and when you get off work all you have to do is put the clothes in the basket.... CASE CLOSED. p.s.: Here is just a little Idea that might just work. If you come home and take off "all" of you clothes I don't think he is going to want to put the clothes up, now if you are naked and all he want to do is put the clothes up.... Yea then you do have a problem... He is a clean freak and does need help.
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13 years ago
$ CAIN $
With a body like that you can come drop yours clothes anywhere you want here!! I suggest you both compromise if you still want to be together Have a little talk and layout the plan of playing first and cleaning later sometimes and playing later and cleaning first sometimes.
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13 years ago
rkrell
Just talk to him. Tell him that his coming over and cleaning up before playing is a big turn off. Explain to him that you will clean up later and that he just needs to relax and let it be. If he can't do that then you two are never going to work out.
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13 years ago
Life in Dreaming
Mm, well, you can't change how he is, but you can try to divert his attention. I'm assuming he's cleaning up for you because he knows you're tired, so he's trying to clean up as a way of helping. It's like the dad does the dishes for the mom because the mom is tired. My suggestion is to tell him that you want to play with him first; be direct. Like, "Honey, come play with me before you start cleaning my mess up..I like it messy" ;D
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13 years ago
Furious Angel
You guys need to find a happy medium. Tell him that you need a lil down time after work, but try to get everything picked up before he comes over. Or maybe just drop everything in a way that makes it look somewhat organized.
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13 years ago
Rocket
This will eventually tear you apart. So, I say, dump him. Clean freaks are controlling, judgmental and simply freaks. I know it is hard to just give up on someone you like for a matter that you don't agree but trust me, in a long run - this is a real deal breaker. Good luck.
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13 years ago
Anonymous
Let him be. Sure it might be annoying, but you aren't perfect either. If that's the biggest imperfection he's got, it doesn't seem too bad, would you rather he was a complete slob instead? Imperfections make people what they are, leave them be if you care about the person, and even more so if you don't.
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13 years ago
justme
APPRECIATE IT. It's better than tripping over all of his clothes on the way to your closet, grabbing wet towels off the new comforter and rinsing dried pen ink out of the sink where he dumped them after exploding. Sigh.
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13 years ago
Diane
Sounds like this is nothing but a physical relationship! Let him clean your place! haha xox
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