13 years ago
Anonymous

I think i might be adopted..? Tell me your judgement on this.?

I am fourteen years old, and I think my sister and I might be adopted. She thinks so too. Anyways tell me your judgement if you think I am. Signs that I might or probally: Don't really look like my parents. Not one picture of my mom pregnate with either my sister or I, but she is a bigger person so she could've been but I didnt see a significant change. My mom was telling me about her friend that adopted and knows soooo much about it. My mother when she was eighteen or so was told she probally couldn't have children. Shes really open with my sister and I and she told us a while back she got her tubes tyed, then my sister got in a converstation about it again and she said she never did. Signs that I am not: Look like my cousin a lot. My sister and I looked a lot like eachother when we were babies. I have no clue, what do you think I dont mind If I was but I am just so curious. Thanks!
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13 years ago
Mrs. P.
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A family conference is called for here. Ask, and tell her your reasons for asking. Good luck.
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13 years ago
MISS-MARY
What difference does it really make. Right now your mom may feel like she can't tell you fearing that all adoption moms feel that you may want your real mom. So, if you are adopted thare are reason's she isn't telling. If you aren't it might hurt her if you say that you think you are...I think we all think that at times. My daughter always thought she was a mistake and I had tole her earlier in life that I chose to get pregnant with her...I had to tell her again and she is 28. So, it's not that unusual. If it really is an issue with you maybe ask her and act like you'd need to know in case of a medical issue or something. I beleive in truth. so, I think if you ask she will tell you if you are alone, the mood is right and you act mature and reassure her that it wouldn't change how you feel. Just remember that it may change your life forever in ways you may not feel right now. sometimes the truth changes us without our choosing. Just be happy that you have good parents or a good mom and your sister. That is the really important thing, right? My daughter also doean't look like her dad like her sister does but she looks like my brother and my father. It has a way of going back in the genetic line into the last generation sometimes. so, that part is easily explained. Also, I have no pic of me pregnant with my first daughter. We just didn't own a camera and we were out of the state where my family was. I have a lot of her after when we moved back for her birth though. So, that can be explained away too. So the fact that you were chosen either way is the really important thing right??? Take care, Miss Mary
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13 years ago
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I had the same problem but it could just be genetics. Remember some genes can hide. My mother doesn't have a picture of her being pregnant with me but perhaps you could look back on your family history and try to look at pictures of other family members. I thought I was adopted until I looked at a picture of my grandmother when she was 15 and the resemblances between her and me were shocking. Try doing some research on family members like a grandmother or something. It sure helped me get over the fact that I thought I was adopted. I hope my advice works out! Best of luck!
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13 years ago
kurtsy
Have a heart-to-heart conversation with your mom. She will tell you the truth. But if you look like your cousin, then you might be her sister [i.e. your real mom gave you away to her sister]. Either way, seriously, ask your mom.
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13 years ago
LeeA
It does sound like it at times. I would ask other people who knew her back then. Other people always know about things like that. You could just ask her. I went to school with a girl who was adopted. Her real bio brother was adopted with her to the same parents.
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13 years ago
Wonderful M
may be your mom doesn't want to tell you the truth coz she doesn't want to lose the pinding of the relationship between you & her , you have to ask her even if you found that you're adopted , what's the problem if she treat you in a good way , some children face bad treat even from their biological parents
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5 years ago
bloomer
of course, you're keen to communicate and all of us on occasion fell guilt while people open all as much as us yet we nonetheless shop issues from them. yet while they're truly as judgmental as you assert, then i do no longer advise telling them. all of us % to open up yet we do in basic terms to those that may not choose us for what they discover interior. on the different hand, you will be able to desire to tell them, in case you comprehend which you does not strategies a lot in the event that they choose you approximately it and it impacts your relationship with them. yet while it is something weighing down on you, then refer to somebody, somebody you are able to assume. in basic terms be useful to enable it out. (It became right into a competent step, already telling one guy or woman approximately it) prefer you the main suitable!
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13 years ago
Anonymous
I would ask your mom... But in a very nice, sincere way! (: Good luc & best wishes<3 http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?qid=20080925144733AA61hse
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13 years ago
Anonymous
seriously..just ask and you'll get the truth. Help w/ mine? http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?qid=20080925144039AAEyMyz
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13 years ago
Anonymous
Probably not, but there is a chance. There are a lot of signs that you are, but its still a low chance.
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