13 years ago
Anonymous

feeling lonely and lost?

Lately, ive been feeling really lonely Dont get me wrong, I have many good friends and everything like that but inside i feel empty and lost. It all started when i started to like this girl, i never got around to asking her out but i really wanted to, but be4 that i was a really outgoing and talkative guy. Now ive turned quiet, angry and im feeling really down. How long will this last? How can i cure it? Did it happen cause i regreted not going for her? I know how pathetic i sound, but its the truth. Ive never felt this way before and i hate it. I feel as if i need someone by me...always... Lifes complicated....
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13 years ago
blip
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I know how you feel mate, and it's not pathetic. But sorry I don't know how you can cure it or how long it will last. (And anyone who says otherwise is lying.) I've felt like that all year, and I'm trying to use it as motivation to re-sort my life, get new friends and focus on doing what I've always wanted to do. Just remember that everything you experience makes you better and smarter. Sadness can be good. The fact that you mentioned the girl probably shows that deep down you already think that it's because of her. You haven't said why it's too late to ask her out, but I'm assuming doing so is impossible, so perhaps finding someone new is the cure. Easier said than done I know. I've found though that really feeling that you need someone else to be happy is really the root of a bigger problem, so perhaps it woould be better to learn how to be happy on your own first. Agreed, life is very complicated.
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13 years ago
Anonymous
Everyone feels like this sometimes in life. Some of us more than others. I ask myself the same question about whether I am so miserable because of my Ex. I want to have someone or something to blame for my unhappiness. Truth is though, it's something inside of us that we must find. Deep inside is the reason that we are so very unhappy. Try not to place blame. Instead, heal yourself and find the bliss in you. It may be the most difficult task ever. It certainly is for me. I do understand all that you feel.
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5 years ago
Anonymous
Wow! i'm 35yrs previous and that i've got had an identical terrific buddy considering the fact that i develop into in the 1st grade. We in simple terms had an identical communication the different day approximately how we the two stay the existence of lies. I particularly have come to realize that u by no capacity particularly know how a individual particularly is or what they might particularly think of. existence is a conflict & once you think of approximately it , what's it pondering??? Is all of us particularly satisfied? I lost my activity final summer season do to the automobile industry in Michigan and working as a bartender... communicate approximately having to be pretend and putting on a grin to those that you will by no capacity even think of approximately chatting with, yet for the affection of money & to guard my family contributors, i'm going to do regardless of. maximum folk experience such as you, yet maximum dont have the balls to admit it. spending time with my daughter retains me sane. you in simple terms would desire to be around people who you appreciate & you dont would desire to be pretend around. stable success tho
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13 years ago
Siena
Hey, I guess people just feel lonely every once in a while. It will pass eventually. But maybe you could still try asking her out? If that's not an option, you could try doing the things you used to do and you'll see you'll like it. good luck to you
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