13 years ago
Anonymous

Do I Move Out of my House? Am I in Love???? HELP!?

Ive been living with my boyfriend for 3 years, I have a 4yrs old daughter that is not his but he takes care of her and of use very well. He is a good man hardworking puts me and my daughter first. BUT.....we have been arguing really bad latley about the stupidist things, i mean argue about anything....im confused i feel lost im only 23 and there is time i just want to be single and take of just me n my daughter....We bicker, argue disagree about everything ppl told me i should give it some space, some time, i can move back with my mom with no problem, Should I? We cant even have a decent conversation without arguing, but i do love him...am i still in love though???? I feel lost what should i do? Am i really just tired of him???? PLEASE HELP!!! any suggestions......thanks !!!!
Top 9 Answers
13 years ago
Arthur A
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My feeling always was that when two people can't sit down and talk about their problems then sometimes It's time to cut the strings because It's know good for you, nor for your child to be a part of that situation.
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13 years ago
LuLu
Its Not The Age Thing Im 17 And Engaged. I Love Him We Practailly Live Together. We Get In Disgreements Like This Sometime An Sometimes Its Like A Week Striaght But We Get Over It. We Took A Break But Got Back Together. After The Break There Wasnt Much Fuss Over Stupid Stuff. Do What You Think Is Right. No Your Not Falling Out Of Love Your Just Need Some Space Like Your Friends Say. Talk To Him About It See What He Thinks!
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13 years ago
Sweet C
Do you really wanna argue with ur boyfriend in front of your daughter. Im 23 and i have a 2yr old, but not in the situation u are in. But your daughter seeing and hearing you argue and you upset all the time isnt good. and if you stay fighting and yelling, im sure you love him and he good to your daughter. but he should treat you like a queen. Do whats best for your daughter,
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13 years ago
stasia
I think its scary when people dont argue. I read in an article that people who stay quiet and internalize their feelings are the ones that cheat. You probably need some alone time (without your daughter) like a retreat or a vacation. You guys need to get some intimacy back in your relationship. I don't think all is lost here.
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13 years ago
Rachy
I have a similar problem... but i dont have any kids... put ur daughter 1st... cant be good for her to hear all the rowing. Move back in with your mum and start from scratch... dating and not seeing each other for a couplde of days... when you have a break from him you will look forward to seeing him again... you probs see him EVERY DAY right? x
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13 years ago
Anonymous
well not all couples are perfect...step up to the plate and whenever he gets back from work give him a massage or just take his shoes off..u never know how the day goes and when he starts to argue be smart and listen dont argue back and agree with him even if he is wrong..trust me it makes a difference
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13 years ago
Bauer066
Well arguing is what happens to all couples but if u want to move in with him always have something planned in case u guys decide to split
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13 years ago
dominique m
this is what you do break up with him,get a job and move u and your daughter out of that house and into a better environment..
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13 years ago
Anonymous
duh how stupid can you be
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