14 years ago
Anonymous
Help! I have a important sex question!!?
Ok, my boyfriend and I have been having sex for awhile know. Every time before we start he puts on a condom and when he is ready to have a orgasm, he pulls out and has the sperm go into the condom. Is this safe against pregnancy? I would think so because he didn't release sperm inside of me. But I guess im just scared because we are 19 and we don't wanna have a baby right now. I am always scared and I believe that I think about it to much and then start to worry and panic. So I am aways on the lookout for my period. In which it always comes on time. So is this a safe way of having sex and Im just worrying to much about it? Should I just relax? Please Help!!
14 years ago
been there got the t-shirt
Favorite Answer
A condom is 97% effective in preventing pregnancy already when he doesn't pull out. The point of a condom is so that he doesn't have to pull out... he just goes inside the condom. Just because the condom is inside of you, doesn't mean his sperm is. So, I think you are being paranoid.
If you are so worried about getting pregnant, go on the pill in addition to using a condom. Can't go wrong with two methods of BC. But him pulling out - trust me, it doesn't feel good for him and it makes the act less enjoyable. What's the point of sex if you can't relax and enjoy it?
Oh, and did you know that you can miss periods by stressing out so much! I used to be just like you... I stressed and stressed that I *might* be pregnant. Then my period didn't come one month and I really freaked out. Turned out that I wasn't actually pregnant... but all my stress and paranoia caused me to miss it.
FYI: I am on the pill, and me and my boyfriend don't use condoms [[we're both STD free]] and I've never gotten pregnant. You'll be fine.
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14 years ago
runner
I would just relax. I do commend you for at least using a condom. Most people don't do that and try that method of pulling out without a condom and that is more risky then what you are doing. Pulling out without a condom is more risky because it only takes one little sperm to enter if you don't pull out in time. I have heard of so many that don't use a condom and did that and became pregnant. Condoms aren't a 100% but safe though. By doing that you are less likely to become pregnant unless the condom breaks. Good job at least protecting yourself since you aren't ready for a baby. I think you are safe and I commend you a job well done for protecting and leasing the chances of an accident.
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14 years ago
caramel
yea sounds like you guys are havin safe sex even tho condoms r not always 100%...u should go to ur local clinic and get some kind of birth control and still continue using condoms to make sure u guys dont get pregnant
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14 years ago
Anonymous
hes still going into the condom, as long as the condom doesnt slip off, it should be safe!
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14 years ago
vee-smalls
your fine......your just being really really careful. good job on wearing a condom!
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