13 years ago
$Pooka$

okay so i have a guy chasing me but our age difference is bothering me?

Okay There is a guy that text's me all the time, I know him thru a friend and she gave him my number and said he is nice,sweet and funny. and he texts me everynight and he wants togo out on a date but I am 29 and he is 18 turning 19..should i be worried about the age gap or just go and have fun???? i just got out of a 2yr long horrible relantionship so I dont know what to do with myself and how to act and this guy is cute and nice but the age difference freaks me out a bit???????
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13 years ago
Anonymous
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go with your gut!!! if you feel wierd about it dont do it...thats ten years....think about how mature you were when you graduated highschool and if you 're stiil confused then talk to him about it...
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13 years ago
underdog
no pls u can do this. the age gap is too much. dont think with ur feelings, think with ur head. u av this feeling of "i want to be loved" right now bcos u just came out of a relationship. also, comparing a guy of that age to a girl of that same age, the girl will be more mature not to talk of a lady of 29. this is psychological. this is infatuation. dont go into it. relax and u'll get another man. pray that God gives u ur on man, ok. be careful u r not feeling the right thing.
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13 years ago
Anonymous
Don't worry about the age difference if you just want to go and have some fun. If you want a meaningful relationship that has potential then this guy is probably too young for that.
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13 years ago
Anonymous
I don't think the age is a problem, I think the problem is that you just got out of a horrible relationship which I think you should step back and be yourself for a while, if you like this guy tell him this and if he likes you well enough he will wait, but I don't think you should get out of one relationship and go into another, I know it is only a date, but that's where it all starts. hope this helps
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13 years ago
Sandy G
Im 29 and my boyfriend is 40. Age is only a number. It is only an issue if you make it so. He is at consenting age, if you like him and he likes you take it slow and see where things go. What have you got to lose?
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13 years ago
fishlake99
So, you are going to jump from a "horrible" relationship into dating a teenager. Somehow the logic just doesn't compute.
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13 years ago
kbldshmn
At 19, his hormones are in overdrive. Have him chase a girl down from Myspace. That might help.
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13 years ago
toobigtofit
You will have fun with him, however as you age you will find that you both always be in different stages in life, so it will be difficult as you are ready to settle down and he is wanting to date still.
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13 years ago
Anonymous
Usually, I'd say age doesn't matter, but that's a pretty big gap. In my honest opinion, I don't think it'd work out.
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13 years ago
dan
go for it ,it doesn't have to be heavy ,have fun be safe and take it you're pace ,don't worry about age i don't there's a eight year gap in my my relationship i couldn't be happier
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13 years ago
truth
well men date like that all the time, well you will be the one stuck with a baby if it dont work out,
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