13 years ago
Anonymous

Relationships with completely different experience levels?

What do you think about relationships when the people are completely different with what they've done? i'm a sophomore and he's a junior, but the big thing is that he isn't even a virgin while i've never even been kissed. any thoughts? thanks
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13 years ago
ღ Lil' Lady ღ
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Happens all the time. If you make each other happy, then that is all that matters. Don't do anything you are not ready for though.
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13 years ago
Dreamer
Be open and honest about your history and expectations- it will save you both time, discomfort, and hurt feelings. There is no reason the relationship can't work; everybody was inexperienced once. Just don't try to pretend you are more experienced than you are, because he'll see through it. And don't try to rush to match his experience level just because you think it will make things better between you, because it won't. You can't have a mature relationship unless you can have open communication about these things, so just sit him down and have a talk about everything. You'll both feel better and you'll both have a good idea of whether or not the relationship is going to work out. Good luck!
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13 years ago
Anonymous
I think sometimes it can be hard. Because he will forget that everything will be your firsts, and no matter what anyone says-firsts are memorable. Just remind him that it's special for you, to take things slow, and enjoy each other. If he is genuine and a nice guy, he will respect that. For the most part it is magical because if you want him to be your first-it will be very special for the both of you. Good Luck!
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13 years ago
roseywild
Relationships are more than a sexual experience. It is getting to know the other person, their likes and dislikes. Sharing what you have in common and allowing the other person ,as well as yourself, to grow into a positive influence on others is important.
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13 years ago
Amber
it's fine to be in a relationship with someone on another level - just dont let him make you do anything you aren't ready for. Know your boundaries and if he really cares about you then he wont mind taking it slow.
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13 years ago
irishsporty549
It'll only be difficult if he doesn't understand that you're innocent and not ready for the intimacy that he's already experienced. If you tell him you're not ready for stuff, and he listens to you, respects you, and takes it slow then i'm sure it'll be fine. But if you've heard of him having sex with many girls, or being fast, and you go out with him and he doesn't seem very respectful, i wouldn't involve yourself with him.
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13 years ago
billgoats79
It can work out. My wife never kissed anyone before me, while I had dated many times. Just make sure you know what your getting into.
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13 years ago
The Brothers Loveland
He is young, like you. So if he is experienced in certain things, it doesn't mean he is an expert at them. As long as he respects your boundaries, I don't see any problem with him at all. Good luck.
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13 years ago
ssss
work it out...just let him know that you would like some time to get use to each other...etc.
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13 years ago
Reno
that's how my boyfriend and I were and he was sensitive with the things i didn't know and took it slow with me
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